Creating a positive homework routine: A guide for parents

Parents
02 May 2025
Image: A teacher speaking to a group of secondary school pupils in a classroom.
Homework can often feel like a battleground between children and parents. But with a little structure, patience, and encouragement, it’s possible to turn homework time into a calm and productive part of the day.

The first step in building a stress-free routine is creating a space that’s just for learning. Setting up a dedicated workspace can make a big difference to how your child approaches learning. Here’s how to do it: 

Choose a quiet area 

It doesn’t need to be fancy. A corner of the kitchen table can work as long as it’s free from distractions like TV or loud siblings. 

Keep it stocked 

Have pens, paper, a ruler and any other supplies your child might need readily available. This prevents unnecessary interruptions and keeps them focused. 

Limit digital distractions 

Unless a device is needed for research or typing, it’s best to keep phones and tablets out of reach. 

Create a consistent schedule 

Children thrive on routine. Establishing a regular homework time helps them mentally prepare and builds a sense of responsibility. 

Choose the right time 

Some children focus better straight after school; others may benefit from a short break first. Work together to find what suits them best. 

Break it up 

For longer tasks, encourage breaks. A five to ten-minute rest every 20 to 30 minutes can make a big difference in maintaining focus. 

Use a planner 

Encourage your child to use a homework diary or app to keep track of assignments and deadlines. 

Be supportive, but let them lead 

Supporting your child doesn’t mean doing the work for them. Instead, think of yourself as a guide: 

  • Be available — Let your child know they can ask for help if they’re stuck, but avoid stepping in too quickly.
  • Ask open-ended questions — Try What’s your plan for this task?’ or What do you think the teacher meant by this?’ to encourage problem-solving.
  • Celebrate effort, not just results — Praise your child for sticking with a difficult task or showing improvement, not just for getting the answer right.

Encourage time management and independence

Teaching your child how to manage their workload sets them up for future success:

  • Break big tasks up into smaller steps — A large project can feel overwhelming, but listing steps makes it manageable.
  • Use timers or visual aids — Tools like sand timers or clocks can help children understand how long tasks should take.
  • Gradually build independence — As your child grows, encourage them to take ownership of their homework routine.

Creating a positive homework routine doesn’t happen overnight, but small changes can have a big impact. With a quiet space, a clear schedule and supportive guidance, children are more likely to approach homework with confidence and less stress. The goal is to help them develop good habits, a sense of responsibility and a lifelong love of learning.